Monica Lou (Franklin) Patience
Monica Lou (Franklin) Patience died Saturday, Dec. 21, 2024. Visitation was Dec. 26 at the Caldwell Parrish Funeral Home, Adel Chapel. Her funeral service will be at 11 a.m. on Friday, Dec. 27, with visitation resuming at 10 a.m. at the Earlham Church of Christ in Earlham. Burial will follow in the Earlham Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be directed to the family. Online condolences may be left for the family at www.caldwellparrish.com.
She was born to Richard Dwain and Mildred Maxine (Keller) Franklin on Feb. 8, 1956, in Creston. Beginning at age 3, Monica lived in many places around the world with her parents, her sister, Lori, and her brother, Mike, as they traveled for Richard’s duties with the U.S. Navy. She graduated from Joseph P. Knapp High School in Currituck County, North Carolina, in 1974. She attended The Presbyterian Hospital School of Nursing in Charlotte, North Carolina, where she, in 1977, earned her diploma as a registered nurse. It was during her time in nursing school that she received Jesus Christ as her personal Savior.
Monica took her first nursing job at Madison County Memorial Hospital in Winterset, working as an OB nurse. She married Gary Patience on Sept. 9, 1978. They had two daughters, Denise and Holly, and two sons, Ryan and Stephen, while farming with Gary’s father, Herb, near Earlham. Monica chose to set aside her nursing career to homeschool her children. She became one of the early pioneers of the homeschooling movement in Iowa. She worked with Iowa lawmakers on legislation granting freedom to parents who desired to homeschool their children.
Monica resumed her nursing career in 2002 working as a nurse for Mercy Hospital in Des Moines for 20 years. Retiring in 2022, she devoted her time to traveling and gardening with Gary and spending time with children and grandchildren. For many years, she was actively involved with the Earlham Church of Christ where she taught and directed Vacation Bible School and J.A.M. (Jesus And Me). Later, with the Valley Evangelical Free Church in West Des Moines, she was actively involved with her life group and women’s Bible study groups.
Monica was preceded in death by her parents. She is survived by her husband, Gary; children, Denise (Wallace) Greenlees, Holly Patience, Ryan (Brianan) Patience and Stephen (Flor) Patience; grandchildren, Jonathan, Violet, Autumn, Garrett, Rose, Angus, William, Summer, Elizabeth, Victoria, Julia and Cyrus Greenlees; Hunter, Wesson, Barrett, Kimber, Remi and Cali Patience; Lili Zuazua and Emma Patience; sister, Lori (Mitica) Cruceru; brother, Michael (Bernie) Franklin; son-in-law, Steve Nancarrow; plus many nieces, nephews, cousins and friends.
She was born to Richard Dwain and Mildred Maxine (Keller) Franklin on Feb. 8, 1956, in Creston. Beginning at age 3, Monica lived in many places around the world with her parents, her sister, Lori, and her brother, Mike, as they traveled for Richard’s duties with the U.S. Navy. She graduated from Joseph P. Knapp High School in Currituck County, North Carolina, in 1974. She attended The Presbyterian Hospital School of Nursing in Charlotte, North Carolina, where she, in 1977, earned her diploma as a registered nurse. It was during her time in nursing school that she received Jesus Christ as her personal Savior.
Monica took her first nursing job at Madison County Memorial Hospital in Winterset, working as an OB nurse. She married Gary Patience on Sept. 9, 1978. They had two daughters, Denise and Holly, and two sons, Ryan and Stephen, while farming with Gary’s father, Herb, near Earlham. Monica chose to set aside her nursing career to homeschool her children. She became one of the early pioneers of the homeschooling movement in Iowa. She worked with Iowa lawmakers on legislation granting freedom to parents who desired to homeschool their children.
Monica resumed her nursing career in 2002 working as a nurse for Mercy Hospital in Des Moines for 20 years. Retiring in 2022, she devoted her time to traveling and gardening with Gary and spending time with children and grandchildren. For many years, she was actively involved with the Earlham Church of Christ where she taught and directed Vacation Bible School and J.A.M. (Jesus And Me). Later, with the Valley Evangelical Free Church in West Des Moines, she was actively involved with her life group and women’s Bible study groups.
Monica was preceded in death by her parents. She is survived by her husband, Gary; children, Denise (Wallace) Greenlees, Holly Patience, Ryan (Brianan) Patience and Stephen (Flor) Patience; grandchildren, Jonathan, Violet, Autumn, Garrett, Rose, Angus, William, Summer, Elizabeth, Victoria, Julia and Cyrus Greenlees; Hunter, Wesson, Barrett, Kimber, Remi and Cali Patience; Lili Zuazua and Emma Patience; sister, Lori (Mitica) Cruceru; brother, Michael (Bernie) Franklin; son-in-law, Steve Nancarrow; plus many nieces, nephews, cousins and friends.
